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How to Find a Maine Divorce Attorney

If you’re from Maine, you may know that Patrick Dempsey (aka “McDreamy” from Grey’s Anatomy) is also from Maine – but did you know that, while he basks in Hollywood’s glow, he’s also known the pain of divorce and the challenge of dyslexia? Patrick Dempsey perseveres in the face of difficulty. And, you can too.

Fall seven times, stand up eight.

~Japanese Proverb

If you’re considering divorce and are researching Maine divorce lawyers, you could likely benefit from good information and use a few words of encouragement. If so, this article is for you.

In this article (which is based upon Maine divorce law), we’ll discuss:

  • Maine specific divorce law requirements;
  • What you need to know about divorce, in general;
  • Whether it’s in your best interest to hire a Maine divorce attorney;
  • How to find and select a qualified lawyer; and
  • How to prepare to work with your lawyer.

Maine Divorce Law Specifics

  • There are residency requirements for filing divorce in the state of Maine.
  • Maine law requires that divorce filings include the grounds for divorce: “no-fault” or “fault”.
  • Maine divorce law terms, which identify you and your spouse, are “plaintiff” for the spouse that files for the divorce and “respondent” for the second spouse.
  • Divorce filings are made in the county courts.
  • Property distribution will be equitable, which means, “fair”, not necessarily equal.
  • Spousal support (i.e. alimony) may be awarded in some cases and child support in based upon the Income Shares Formula.

What You Need to Know About Divorce in a Nutshell

This is good advice no matter your state and individual situation. Consider how you’d apply each of these points in your own life.

  • Never hire a shark attorney. Though you need good legal advice, select a divorce attorney who will work collaboratively and cooperatively, encouraging you and your spouse to work out a marital settlement agreement (and avoid court, if possible).
  • Going to court is a complete loss of control, further antagonizes all parties involved, causes increased stress, and costs a lot of money.
  • Know that if you communicate, collaborate, cooperate, compromise, and follow your attorney’s direction, you will pay minimum legal fees and get more of what you want in the divorce.
  • Neither your divorce attorney, nor your children is your therapist.

Is it in Your Best Interests to Work with a Maine Divorce Lawyer?

Yes; but, what do you think?

Will a mistake cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars? Your home? Your retirement savings? Time with your children? Marital rights? What if you made two mistakes?

You always have the legal right to represent yourself in a Maine divorce; however, it’s not likely the best choice for you or anyone else. Even attorneys, who go through divorce, hire their own divorce lawyers.

How to Find and Select a Maine Divorce Attorney

The easiest and fastest way to find an appropriate attorney is to do an online search for “How to Find a Maine Divorce Attorney” or ask friends and family for referrals.

Here are top 3 most important lawyer qualifications to help you make your selection. Select a lawyer who:

  • Practices divorce and family law. (Divorce/family law should be the focus of his or her practice because attorneys are not all the same.)
  • Has a “collaboration” mindset. (An attorney who wants to “make your spouse pay” may sound on target, but it will cost you in the end.)
  • Will help you keep your legal fees and stress level to a minimum.

Be sure to have a conversation with an attorney before making a hiring decision. Ask all of your questions about what to expect, fees, timeline, etc. Your comfort level is of the utmost importance.

How to Prepare to Work with Your Divorce Attorney

Preparation to work with your divorce attorney is twofold: Mindset and financials. Both are important.

Your attorney needs the numbers to give you good advice; and, you need the proper mindset to follow that advice and make good decisions.

  • Mindset: Cooperation, communication, collaboration, and compromise are the paths to the ultimate goals of keeping your sanity, getting a fresh start, protecting your children, and not wasting all of your money on legal fees and anger.
  • Mindset: Consider reconciliation. Is your marriage truly irretrievably broken for the long run? You may feel differently as time passes and the option of divorce will always be there.
  • Mindset: Meet with a therapist to deal with the emotional aspects of divorce. As mentioned, children and divorce attorneys are not your therapists.
  • Financial: Gather and organize financial documents stating all income, expenses, debts, and assets. Income tax returns and financial statements are a good place to start.
  • Mindset/Financial: Create a wish list of everything you would like in the divorce. Indicate which items “must” stay and which belong in the “it would be nice” category.
  • Keeping in mind the recommended mindset and financial issues, make a list of questions to address with your lawyer at your next telephone conference.

We hope this article gives you a step in whichever direction is right for you. We’ll end with what may be the best quote for anyone going through a divorce or struggles.

If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again.

~Flavia Weedn, Flavia and the Dream Maker

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